My dad was a wise man of few words (yes, Mr./Ms. Smarty. My mother was a talker. That answers that genetic question.) I remember a conversation with him about a new thoracic surgeon named Nelson Kraft, who had just arrived in Tallahassee. He talked about what a great surgeon he was and how fortunate we were to have him in Tallahassee. I said, “Dad, what makes one surgeon better than another?” He said, “What do you think?” I said, “Small hands?” He said, “No.” “Dexterity?” “No.” “Sharp eye?” “No.” He said, “THE MARK OF A GREAT SURGEON IS KNOWING WHEN NOT TO OPERATE.”
Going forward feels like progress but isn’t always progress. Sometimes it’s heading for a cliff. The wise people I admire are always moving forward but at a pace where stopping or changing directions is possible. There will always be the Tiger Woods of the world who can stop his prodigious golf swing in mid-swing. Most of us can’t do that, so we need a little slower pace. Is there a decision you’d be better off not making right now? Not sure? Maybe it would be a good time to ask the Lord what He thinks and see what He says to your heart.

