Seeking to Win a Friend (who turns out to be resistant)

Posted by Dick Lincoln on April 14, 2010
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Fishing Buddies

When I came to faith in Christ and my life began to change, the Lord gave me a real heart for lost friends.  All of mine but one were lost.  One in particular was my hunting, fishing, and dating friend from high school named Bill.  I couldn’t wait to get home so I could talk with him about Jesus.  The week before I went home I prayed daily and had some church friends do the same.

             When I got to Tallahassee I went to his house and asked him if we could go to his room.  He sat on his bed and I sat on the floor.  I began saying something like, “Something has happened to me, and although it is new it is also really wonderful.  I have accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior, and He is truly changing my life.”

             The look on his face changed from pleasant to not so pleasant.  He looked at me and said, “Why are you telling me this?”  I said, “I don’t know.  I know your family is Baptist, but we have never discussed Christ in any way, so I figured you were Baptist like I was Episcopalian – in name only.”  “Well, I’m not.  I’m ok.”  It was pretty much the end of the conversation, and it put a real chill on our relationship for quite a while.

             Surprisingly enough I didn’t feel like a failure at the time, although the strain hurt me because Bill had been a friend of mine since cub scouts (and we still are friends.)  I did feel like I had done what the Lord would have me do and that I needed to leave the results to God.  With occasional twinges of regret, that’s what I did.

             Can you imagine the joy several years later when I heard from him that as a law student in Birmingham, Alabama, he had prayed to receive Christ? Now we were brothers in Christ.  It was also a real relief because all signs of the strain between us were gone.

             I remember at the time thinking it could be difficult to win a friend to Christ who had done so many non-Christian things with me and who would remember me much more in that light than he would in the new light of Christ and that if it put a strain on our relationship or indeed if I lost a friend but he eventually came to faith in Christ, it would be worth the strain.  I think that was the right calculation. Sometimes I think that I and the rest of us take the other side of the calculation – that I would rather maintain a friendship than alienate someone even for a time by seeking to share my faith with them.

             I hope you are thinking about who you can share your faith with, that you will share prayerfully, and that you will leave the results of your sharing to God.  God bless you as you develop the harvest mind and as you apply it to the people God has put in your life.

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Happy Easter (After the Fact)

Posted by Dick Lincoln on April 07, 2010
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I had not been a Christian for long when I heard a pastor preach a sermon in which he put people down who came to church on Easter and Christmas and made it very plain that God’s true people were the people who came all the time.  I was very bothered by it at the time.  I felt somewhat good about the fact that I was an all-the-timer.  However, I was bothered about it because I thought about the number of times I went to church on Easter and at Christmas and felt very special about it and actually felt a touch of God.  I wondered how I would have felt if I had been at that stage and had heard him basically congratulate himself and all the regular attendees.  Now that I have had time to grow in my faith, I realize all that was wrong with that outlook. 

             Christianity is very different from Judaism in that Christianity is a faith composed of insiders who are committed to outsiders.  When we become a community of insiders committed to insider-ism, we become something Christianity has never been nor will ever be designed to do.  I certainly would never want to talk about Easter/Christmas attendees as being an ideal.  But to have unkind feelings or have the feeling that we are somehow special rather than people who are most fortunately graced by our great God is a denial of the truth.  We were all sinners when we were called.  We remain redeemed sinners in our calling, and when we go to heaven to finally be glorified and perfected, it will all be by the great grace of God. 

             Let us respond this Easter and every week to those who have not yet embraced our faith with a profound understanding that we are saved by the grace of God and by that alone, not by our inherent goodness. Let us grant to them a joyful welcome, letting them know we love and appreciate them.  Yes, they will probably get the idea that we really need them and will be lucky to have them and they’ll never really understand that that is not true until they come to Christ themselves and recognize what they’ve missed all their lives.  God bless you.  Happy Easter.  Let’s do all we can.

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Taking Co-MOON-nion

Posted by Dick Lincoln on March 22, 2010
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A friend of mine sent an e-mail to me with the most amazing account.  Did you know that the very first meal eaten on the surface of the moon was communion taken by Buzz Aldrin as he read a passage of Scripture from John 15?  He was an elder in a Presbyterian Church in Texas, and this was something his pastor worked out for him to do. 

             I found this to be most inspiring and a great and glorious testimony to the wonder of the Lord Jesus Christ.  You can read below the account Buzz Aldrin gives of that first meal on the moon.  God bless you as you read.  We serve a great and mighty God.

 


 
 (This is an article by Eric Metaxas) 
 
 Forty years ago today two human beings changed history
 by walking on the surface of the moon. But what happened before Buzz
 Aldrin and Neil Armstrong exited the Lunar Module is perhaps even more
 amazing, if only because so few people know about it. “I’m talking
 about the fact that Buzz Aldrin took communion on the surface of the moon. 

 Some months after his return, he wrote about it in Guideposts magazine.
 
 
  And a few years ago I had the privilege of meeting him
 myself. I asked him about it and he confirmed the story to me, and
 I wrote about in my book Everything You Always Wanted to Know About God
 (But Were Afraid to Ask). 
 
 The background to the story is that Aldrin was an elder at his
 Presbyterian Church in Texas during this period in his life, and knowing
 that he would soon be doing something unprecedented in
 human history, he felt he should mark the occasion somehow, and he asked his pastor to help him. And so the pastor consecrated a communion wafer and a small vial of communion wine. And Buzz Aldrin took them with him out of the Earth’s orbit and on to the surface of the moon. 
 
 He and Armstrong had only been on the lunar surface
 for a few minutes when Aldrin made the following public statement: 
 ”This is the LM pilot. I’d like to take this opportunity to ask every
 person listening in, whoever and wherever they may be, to pause for a  moment and contemplate the events of the past few hours and to give thanks in his or her own way.” He then ended radio communication and there,  on the silent surface of the moon, 250,000 miles from home, he read a verse from the Gospel of John, and he took communion. Here is his own account of what happened: 


 ”In the radio blackout, I opened the little plastic packages which contained the bread and the wine. I poured the wine into the chalice our church had given me. In the one-sixth gravity of the moon, the wine slowly curled and gracefully came up the side of the cup. Then I read the Scripture, ‘I am the vine, you are the branches.  Whosoever abidesin me will bring forth much fruit.  Apart from me you can do nothing. 
 
 I had intended to read my communion passage back to earth, but at the last minute [they] had requested that I not do this. NASA was already embroiled in a legal battle with Madelyn Murray 
 O’Hare, the celebrated opponent of religion, over the Apollo 8 crew reading from Genesis while orbiting the moon at Christmas. I agreed reluctantly. 
 
 I ate the tiny Host and swallowed the wine. I gave thanks for the intelligence and spirit that had brought two young pilots to the Sea of Tranquility. It was interesting for me to think: the very first liquid ever poured on the moon, and the very first food eaten there, were the communion
 elements. 
 
 And of course, it’s interesting to think that some of the first words spoken on the moon were the words of Jesus Christ, who made the Earth and the moon – and Who, in the immortal words of Dante, is Himself the “Love that moves the Sun and other stars.”
 
 WOW!!!!
 

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What is the Harvest Mind?

Posted by Dick Lincoln on March 19, 2010
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The “harvest mind” is one of the ways of looking at the world that I pray will become natural to you as a born-again believer.  What do I mean by the harvest mind?  As far as I know, this phrase was invented by a friend of mine named Ron Lewis. Ron was the church growth consultant at our church before he died of cancer several years ago serving here as our consultant for about 25 years.  He took the phrase from the Lord’s command to look at the fields that are white already unto harvest and to pray to the Lord of the harvest that He would send workers into the harvest.  The Scriptures from which this idea comes are Matthew 9:37-38, Mark 4:26-29, and John 4:34-38.  In each of these cases, the Lord makes the point that the seed of the Gospel has been sown in the world, that the Spirit of God has entered the world, that the Spirit of God is working in the church and in the preaching and witness of the church, and that there is opportunity in the world to reach people for Jesus Christ.

             A man I admired a great deal as a pastor once said he believed every person he met needed the Lord Jesus Christ – most of them just didn’t know it yet.  That’s a clear expression of the belief that people need the Lord and the Lord has made it possible for them to receive Him.  He has, in fact, worked in many people’s lives so they are ready.  However, He will not do the harvesting.  We must work at the harvest and pray for others to do the same.

             The harvest mind is the opposite of the attitude many modern Christians have.  Perhaps Christians have always felt that way, but I’m only familiar with the Christians of our day.  Too many of us believe that all people are basically resistant to the Gospel, religion is a private matter, and we should not intrude in other people’s lives or seek to impose our values on them.  If we ever decided we wanted to share, it’s something we should only attempt after lots and lots of relationship building and after earning the right to be heard.  Jesus simply said, “The harvest is ready, and it is time for workers to be sent.”  You and I are those workers.  My experience is that unless we develop a mind that sees the world that way and honestly believe the Lord Jesus has done His work so the harvest is ready, we will probably hang back in timidity.  Do you have the harvest mind?  Ever?  Occasionally?  Never?  Begin praying to the Lord of the harvest and ask Him to give you a harvest mind. Tell Him you’d like to have a fresh vision of the world that sees the world as ready to respond to the Gospel.  Ask the Lord to lay some soul upon your heart that you may begin to reach out to them in the name of Jesus.

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